Wednesday, May 14, 2014

Landmark Forum Takeaway #4

100%.

In a marriage, or in any undertaking, is the relationship a "fifty/fifty" proposition?

Lots of people say "yes," but in reality that doesn't work. Even a "one hundred/one hundred" proposition doesn't work, because there's still no consistent sense of personal responsibility. People play with the numbers and insert their stories and make the other person wrong.

The only way a marriage, or anything else, works consistently is via a willingness to return to a "one hundred/zero" proposition.